Tuesday, May 14, 2013

Morning Thoughts -- Concerning Questions


I am still house sitting out in the Los Sabinos gated community. I go home on Sunday. Tomorrow I am going grocery shopping at Wal Mart with one of the neighbors.  I won't be able to go to the Wednesday Market in town. It is too far away. This morning, I am walking to the Tuesday Market out in this area with the two dogs. The maid comes today and I need to get out of the house while she works. Hard life. Getting out of the way of the maid and gardener. He comes this evening. I will go to the pool while he is here. How did I get so lucky?

I remember dreaming of living here and reading everything I could find about it. I did that for many years so I understand when people write to me with questions. I had so many questions and most of them I had to find out for myself after I arrived. It is difficult to tell others what it is like to live in a particular place.

Recently, a friend from here visited Guatemala and a small mountain town near the lake. Lake Atitlan. I have often thought about visiting that lake because the photos of it are spectacular. But I never seem to get things together enough to travel. Partly because it is so nice here. I have a great life. So why change it? But sometimes I get a little bored. A trip would be good for me. So I sent my friend a list of questions about that area. He decided he likes it there better than here and I wanted to know why. Was there a pool I could use? Was it difficult to find rentals? Would I be able to walk on the mountain there? All the kinds of questions people send to me.

I had to laugh at myself after I sent it off because when I get these kinds of e mails I really just want to say, COME ON DOWN. Find out for yourself. Most all of your questions will be answered within a few days after your arrival.

My friend quickly responded and answered all my questions. I really appreciated that he took the time to do that for me. It also made me realize that I too am helping people with their questions. Most questions are just our anxieties coming to the surface and our desire to control the uncontrollable. Going to new places can be stressful and scary.

I guess asking questions is like going into a cold pool one inch at a time, compared to just jumping in all at once. I think the jumping in all at once is a better way to do it but I am a one inch at a time kind of person. So I too ask a lot of questions and usually I end up not going at all. It is just too nice here...... Maybe I will walk with the dogs to that French Bakery and have coffee and a pastry out on their patio before going to the market.

10 comments:

  1. Atitlan is nice. I spent some time there last winter. It is a blown-up volcano with a lake in the crater. Guatemala has turned the corner in the quest to become a place where people can come to visit and be safe. I drove a few thousand miles around the country last winter and had no problems.

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    1. Hi Norm, I just put this post on and Immediately, I got some questions answered. Thank you Norm. Maybe I will make it there one of these days. P

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  2. Pat, this is just great. I hope I can be there permanently one day. So relaxing. It's just crazy here, everyone always in a hurry, work is crazy. Your posts are so peaceful.

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    1. Hi Lorrie, Thank you for that compliment. I guess I DO have a peaceful life.... P

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  3. Yes, Pat, you MUST visit Lake Atitlan. I'd bring my pictures to show you when I got to Ajijic in August but my camera with all my Guatemalan pics was stolen. Maybe we can travel to Atitlan together some day?

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  4. And I agree with Norm. Lake Atitlan is prettier than Chapala. The lake is so refreshing!

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    1. Hi Lorrie, Thank you for that insight. Maybe one day I will make it down there to see for myself. P

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    2. Hi Lorrie, Interesting idea. I have never traveled with anyone. Always alone. It might be fun. P

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  5. Hi Pat,

    I stayed in and around Lake Atitlan for two months a couple of years ago. It is a beautiful place to visit. I enjoyed my stay there. The people were great. But for me, it is just a place to visit. Mexico on the other hand is a great place to live.

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    1. Hi Gar, Thanks for that information. That is the same conclusion I have come to about Lake Atitlan. Maybe I can visit it one day. P

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